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God is Still Writing

amy • December 31, 2022

When you start to feel like things should have been better this year, remember the mountains and valleys that got you here. They are not accidents, and those moments weren't in vain. You are not the same. You have grown and you are growing.  You are breathing, you are living, you are wrapped in endless, boundless grace. And things will get better. There is more to you than yesterday.

- Morgan Harper Nichols -

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I’m so grateful to the Lord for 2022. So much goodness has taken place this year. So much to be thankful for. Breakthrough moments that I didn’t dare to fully dream would be possible last year around this time. So much God has done for me and my family. So. Many. Blessings. And yet, 2022 was still another year filled to the brim with heaviness and loss. Buckets of tears. The weight of our circumstances is harder to suppress. Living in an extended season of “not yet” is painful and hard. But God keeps breathing new strength, beautiful peace and immeasurable hope into my weary bones. The story of life is woven with both joy and pain. 


When I look back over this past year, I want to remember how good God is. His faithful presence not just during my “decent” days, but more importantly, He was with me through every single moment - no matter how dark, lonely or painful. He was with me when I was at my worst.  He was there with me during the days when no one seemed to understand. He was with me in the waiting, the struggling, the rejoicing and the breakthroughs. He was the one filling my days with endless grace. His faithful presence is so evident over the last twelve months. This is why I have faith that everything will one day be made right -  because God is carrying me.  He has never failed to show me His faithfulness regardless of the year or season I am walking through. He continues to remind me that my “not yet” doesn’t mean “not ever”. 


In your own life, 2022 may have been filled with joy, pain or a mixture of both.  God is writing a beautiful masterpiece called your life. All the chapters He includes are necessary.  Sometimes the parts we wouldn't choose are the ones that bring the most depth and make the end result so very rich and beautiful as you see His hand woven throughout every moment.  I’m choosing to see the painful parts of my story as something of value.  Because I've dug into who God is, who He’s created me to be and where my hope is found, I’m able to face whatever this next year may hold. 


“But those who hope in the Lord will find new strength.”

 Isaiah 40:31


This time of year for many stirs up a surge of hope, inspiration and planning for the upcoming year and all that it may hold. But there are many who have a difficult time as the last days of the year approach. It is another reminder of a year once again ending without certain prayers being answered or dreams coming to life. Many longings unfulfilled.  I recently read this quote by Pete Scazzero,
“Jesus shows us what time is for.  If I am harsh, rushed or anxious or impatient, I am doing time the world’s way, not God’s - even if I am doing it in His name.”


The past six years have been the hardest of my life - emotionally, spiritually and physically. My humanity often screams at me, telling me what I have lost, how much I’m behind and how long the road in front of me looks to my earthly eyes.  While there might be some truth in these thoughts, my heart continues to cling to the fact that this valley has made me more compassionate, it has softened my heart, filled me with grace, thankfulness and a hope that can only come from Jesus. I am choosing to count the fruit as I continue to walk by faith and not by sight.


May we enter into this New Year trusting God and His faithful timing. Patience and waiting on the Lord is so foundational. God’s not in the rush and neither should we be.  Time and waiting are important components for sharpening our discernment and the voice of God in our own lives.  It allows us to hear Him more clearly. Continue to be still my friends as we enter 2023.  Listen, grow and wait on the Lord as He writes this next year for you. Expect Him for the things you haven’t dared to dream about. Wait with hope for His promises to come alive in your life. Make a deliberate plan to be in His Word daily and pay attention to the keys He gives you during those moments. They are beautiful lifelines.

Faith is not knowing what is ahead of you,

but knowing who is in control of whatever may be ahead of you.


So while I’m praying and believing in God for healing in 2023 - my friends who are also struggling with a valley of their own, I want you to know that I see you.  But more importantly, God sees you. He sees all that you have already walked through and where this next year will lead. May both of our hearts continue to trust that God’s will be done in our lives.  That our story is His before it is ever ours.  And even if it takes longer, we trust because
God is faithful. He has proven it time and time again. And for Him, it is never about what our flesh and earthly desires want, or how long the valley may last. Instead it is more about who we become on the journey. 


No matter where this end of the year finds you, I pray you can still surrender your deepest prayers and desires into the caring hands of our Heavenly Father.  Focus on bringing your heart into alignment with His. He wants to give you a renewed vision and hope for 2023.  Keep standing on His faithfulness and the promises He has spoken over your life - speak them forth into this upcoming year. With God, nothing is impossible. 


Nothing you may be facing can keep His purpose for your life from being established.  It’s never too late.  Who knows what the first day of this new year may bring. Who knows how or when parts of your story will unfold.  But God does. And He is more than faithful. Our part is to trust God and to be obedient in following the steps He guides us in. 

"From beginning to end you are God"

Psalm 90:2


If God was faithful then, He will be faithful now. Make room in your heart for hope.  Fill your mind with expectation that what is to come still holds the very best of His plan and purpose for your life.  God has the final say over everything. Not one detail goes unnoticed. You can trust His timing. Hold your plans loosely and remain ready for God to step in at any moment. I can get up each day knowing that disease and pain are not the final word. I can live my life with purpose knowing that my Heavenly Father is good and His plan will prevail.


"Meanwhile, the moment we get tired in the waiting, God’s Spirit is right alongside helping us along. If we don’t know how or what to pray, it doesn’t matter. He does our praying in and for us, making prayer out of our wordless sighs, our aching groans. He knows us far better than we know ourselves... That’s why we can be so sure that every detail in our lives of love for God is worked into something good."

Romans 8: 26-28


In every season, we can stand firm on this truth: God has a plan.  Whether we can hear His voice loud and clear or we're leaning into just a whisper, God is working and drawing us to Him and His will for our lives. 2023 is a new year, but our Heavenly Father’s promises are always the same and they are always good. God is still writing your story my friend - redemption isn’t just an idea, it’s a beautiful storyline woven through history. 



Amy<3


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