FREE Shipping  on all orders over $100

grace in this valley
0

Wounded Hands Can Still Hold Hope

amy • November 12, 2022

God draws near to those who call on Him.

James 4:8

randy and amy holding hands in car black and white photo. Both hands resting on lap with jeans

Sometimes the thing does break you.


Sometimes, the story doesn't begin with, "it almost broke me"

but that "it absolutely broke me".


Sometimes the goodness of God isn't that He held you together

but that you fell apart in His hands.


Sometimes, healing isn't patching the pieces of what's left back together.


Sometimes healing is remaining in remembering - that your being began with dust,

and the ashes can be a part of your becoming.


Wounded hands can still hold hope.


Charaia Callabrass


This. Such beautiful raw truth. Through my journey over these last several years, I have encountered and read stories of women who are beyond wounded and weary.  They are broken, battered and lonely. I know I have been one of them and often I still am. The words from Charaia Callabrass could have come directly from the deep places of my heart.


Some of you have walked long, hard paths and are still deep in the trenches. All you can see are the ashes surrounding you as you are gasping to get air.  Some have reached their long-awaited mountaintop finally able to take a breath and exhale, but you hardly recognize the person staring back at you. Others are in the middle with me where they see signs of breakthrough and a view of what they hope will be their mountaintop, but how will they manage to reach it with all the shattered pieces weighing them down. Wherever you may find yourself  today my friend, you can rest knowing that God is at work renewing all things. Even the things that have broken every single part of you. He wants your wounded hands to hold His unshakable hope once again.


Last year around this time, my body started to rapidly shut down and there was a point over a few weeks where I didn't know if I would make it to Christmas. It felt like this illness had finally consumed almost everything inside of me. My soul felt so defeated and crushed. I had reached the lowest point in my entire life both physically and emotionally. It had finally broken me. The following verse became my cry when I felt like I just couldn't go on and all I could do was fall at the feet of my Savior and start declaring His life giving words over my weak and failing body.  I have experienced the truth and power of these words, and so can you.


“The LORD is near to the brokenhearted

And saves those who are crushed in spirit”

Psalm 34:18


We live in a broken world, with broken people, and broken stories. In those deep moments of falling apart, God still desires us to lift our hands and cry out to Him.  Declare the goodness of the Lord over your life despite what you may see or how you may feel. Even in weakness and brokenness, you can speak the name of Jesus over your life and body. Fall at His feet and allow our Savior to breathe healing love into all those broken places and shattered dreams. There is no one who loves you like He does. Jesus weeps with us, the Spirit of God prays for us and our heavenly Father collects every single tear we cry and takes record of them. Nothing is lost when it comes to our Heavenly Father.


God never abandons us in the breaking.  He never leaves. He never stops sustaining us.  He never stops guiding our steps.  He uses these valleys to draw us even closer to Him.  No moment of your journey is wasted and in no moment of your journey are you ever alone. When the wounds and deep valleys of life threaten to take over and the brokenness seems utterly unfixable, we need to experience a fresh touch from our Heavenly Father.  He wants to receive our wounds, embrace us with healing and then transform our loss and hopelessness.  His desire is truly to give you hope and a future.


“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”

Psalm 147:3 


The scripture says, “He heals,” meaning this healing is ongoing. It is not a one-time deal but rather a supernatural act that can occur over and over in our lives. God does not abandon us with our wounded hands and our broken stories. He steps into those places, heals what needs to be healed and gives us a fresh outpouring of hope that is grounded in Him. He wants to remind us that His power has no limits. Read that again. His power has no limits. None. He is mighty enough to heal our deepest broken pieces and most painful stories. Nothing is ever too far gone. Our pain is not beyond His amazing power.  He is our Great Physician - able to reach in and restore and renew whatever may be wounded, shattered or lost. And somehow, even when hope seems almost lost and the brokenness seems too far gone, He will step in again and again and again.


The ashes can be part of your becoming my friend wherever you are in this journey God has you on. Jesus' hands were wounded and yet they held the most hope for this world.   If you allow Him to put you back together, He can restore you to a newness you didn't think possible. God will use all of those scattered and broken pieces as a conduit for His grace and His hope. It may not come in a package that you had hoped for or the timing that you had wanted, but trust that it will come. Our Heavenly Father is good like that.


Just think, Jesus is sitting at the right hand of the Father interceding for you in this very moment. So tell Him what’s on your heart, give him all your broken pieces and then thank Him for lavishing His sufficient grace over you. I know my words will not lift any burdens or remove any pain, but I pray they will help to turn your gaze towards heaven and point you to Jesus who can help. Let Him fill you with hope again as you cling to the promises He has given. Our wounded hands, no matter how battered and bruised, can still hold His hope.



Amy<3

Grace in this Valley

Amy in black in white photo with ugg stocking cap sitting in recliner.
By amy January 8, 2025
Nine years ago today, a line was drawn between before and after. Life changed completely for our family and the hard began in ways I never could have imagined.
up close image of whipped tallow remedy whip and balm blends and what they look like from the top
By amy January 4, 2025
Remedy was born from our personal journey to soothe and bring relief to our daughter’s severe eczema. What started as a simple way to care for her skin has grown into something deeply meaningful for our family.
black and white image of the couple on their wedding day right after they got married with pure joy
By amy August 20, 2024
"The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness." - Lamentations 3:22-23
The family in a closer photo smiling for the camera.
By amy April 1, 2024
"How beautiful are the feet of the man that came for me. How beautiful are the scars that tell me just how kind you are... My Jesus."

Follow on instagram

To Keep Up To Date With My Life & Find Encouragement

Join the Journey

Get all our updates and encouragement sent directly to your email.

Sign Up

Join the Journey

Get all our updates and encouragement sent directly to your email.

Sign Up

Share by: